Emergency help
If someone’s telling you they’re about to take action to hurt themself or others – or they’re about to try to take their life or someone else’s, call 999 and ask for police (not ambulance).
The police will organise an ambulance if needed. Ambulance workers can’t restrain someone from hurting themselves or others, only police can do that. Ambulance staff and paramedics also can’t take someone to hospital against their will.
If you’re struggling with your mental health, or someone you know is, there’s help out there. No-one needs to struggle alone.
Mental health support is usually available from GP practices, friends and family but there are specialist helplines too. Your mental health is just as important as your physical health, so you will not be wasting anyone's time by using these services.
Mental health helplines – why call one?
Helplines are anonymous. You can tell them anything without embarrassment – they’ll never know who you are
- You can sometimes call any time, when other support routes or people aren’t around
- They help many people feel less alone
- Helpline staff are specifically trained and experienced. They know what to do
- You can hang up on a helpline if it gets too much or you feel embarrassed
- Helplines often become a lifeline for people when they’re struggling to cope or are feeling isolated.
Which helpline?
Whether you're concerned about yourself or a loved one, helplines and support groups can offer expert advice.
The NHS website lists a range of organisations waiting to help: from those which focus on specific physical conditions to more general mental health advice, from support with bereavement to helplines dedicated to supporting men, children or young people. Most have a phone number you can ring and many also have a website, online webchat or email address you can contact.
The following helplines are all free to use and they provide an opportunity to speak to people specially trained to listen non-judgmentally.
- SANEline is a national out-of-hours mental health helpline offering specialist emotional support, guidance and information to anyone affected by mental illness, including family, friends and carers. They are normally open every day of the year from 4pm to 10pm on 0300 304 7000.
- Samaritans offer a safe place to talk any time you like, in your own way – about whatever is getting to you, big or small. Their 24 hour free phone helpline can be accessed on 116 123 or you can email jo@samaritans.org which may have a response time of several days.
- National Suicide Prevention Helpline UK offers a supportive listening service to anyone with thoughts of suicide. You can call on 0800 689 5652 from 6pm to 3:30am every day.
- Campaign Against Living Miserably (CALM). You can call 0800 58 58 58 from 5pm to midnight every day if you are struggling and need to talk. Or if you prefer not to speak on the phone, you could try the CALM webchat service.
Specialist support
- PAPYRUS is a national UK charity dedicated to the prevention of young suicide. PAPYRUS’ helpline: HOPELINEUK, is a free and confidential service for children and young people under the age of 35 who are experiencing thoughts of suicide, or anyone concerned that a young person could be thinking about suicide. PAPYRUS advisers are there to support from 9am to midnight every day of the year by phone (0800 068 4141), by text (0786 003 9967) or by email at pat@papyrus-uk.org.
- Childline provides support for all under-19s in the UK. The helpline is 0800 1111 and it’s open 24/7. You can also contact them for help via email or access their 1-2-1 counselling service through their website: www.childline.org.uk/get-support
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- Switchboard is an LGBT+ helpline available on 0300 330 0630, open 10am–10pm every day. Online chat support is also available on their website: switchboard.lgbt
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- MindLine Trans+ is a confidential emotional, mental health support helpline for people who identify as transgender, agender, gender fluid and non-binary. The helpline is available nationwide and can be accessed on 0300 330 5468.
- Mindout Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans & Queer Mental Health Service have an online live chat support service which can be accessed through their website: www.mindout.org.uk
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- Galop are an anti-abuse charity who provide helplines and other support for LGBT+ adults and young people who have experienced hate crime, sexual violence or domestic abuse. You can call their helpline on 0800 999 5428, email help@galop.org.uk or get help from their live chat service on their website at galop.org.uk/get-help
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- Mermaids supports gender-diverse young people aged 19 and under, and their families and carers. They offer a helpline from Monday to Friday 9am to 9pm on 0808 801 0400 and via web chat at mermaidsuk.org.uk/contact-us
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- Nightline are student-run listening and information services, open at night when other services on campus may be closed. If you're a student, you can look on the Nightline website
to see if your university or college offers a night-time listening service.
- The Mix provides support for people under 25 and you can talk to them about your mental health, relationships, work life, school life, depression and any other issues you're dealing with. Call on 0808 8084 994 from 4pm to 11pm Monday to Saturday, live chat on their themix.org.uk website
or request support by email using this form on their website
You can also contact their crisis messenger 24 hours a day, 7 days a week by texting THEMIX to 85258.
- Too Black Too Queer
(by Brixton Reel) - Black LGBT+ short films around mental health and issues facing the black community.
- Black LGBTQIA+ Therapy Fund - In 2020, in response to the worldwide pandemic, this was set up to fund therapy sessions for Black LGBTQIA+ people, recognising the unique challenges Black LGBTQIA+ people face and the huge mental health toll this can have. Email: blkoutuk@gmail.com.